I’m a big classic TV fan. My mom, sister, and I used to sit down and watch all the old classics – I Love Lucy, Bewitched, I Dream of Jeannie. 

I used to wish I could twitch my nose, or fold my arms and nod, and then “VOILA!” whatever I wanted would appear.

No work required.

No planning.

No trying and failing and trying again.

No falling off the horse and having to get back on again.

No overcoming fears and doubts and old stories.

Let’s admit, we all want to get to our goals and dreams as fast as we can, and that means looking for the shortcuts, loopholes, and quickest route to get there.

A lot of time we look for all the actions and strategies that will give us the quickest results.

And, action is essential to the manifesting formula. If you want to achieve the vision for your life and business, you can’t just sit by on the couch binging netflix and hoping it just falls into your lap.

Life doesn’t work that way, (though it also kind of does when you are truly aligned in how you approach your life and your beliefs, but that’s a conversation for another day!).

As you embark on your business dreams, creating an action plan is only part of the equation. 

The other piece of the puzzle is BECOMING the person that has what she desires.

What do I mean by that? I mean that our actions are fueled by the mindset, thoughts, and energy we lead with every day.

We can take all the action in the world, but if we don’t believe it’s possible, don’t think we know enough or are enough, if we constantly entertain ideas that we are lacking then that will all impact how we take action, our motivation, how aligned our actions are to what we really want, and if we work to overcome our fears and doubts to take action.

How fast, and if we achieve our goals and dreams, is all based on how we LEAD ourselves to what we envision of creating.

The key is that we need to LEAD ourselves. We need to take control. We need to decide the outcome and determine how we need to show up to make it happen.

That all all starts with our mindset and thought patterns.

It starts with deciding what we want to believe. 

It all starts with our intention each and every day – intentional thoughts and actions that we KNOW will get us to where we desire to be.

We need to know who we will be when we achieve our goals and dreams.

Who is that woman? What did she need to believe to make it happen? What actions did she need to take despite any fears, doubts, or limiting beliefs? What habits did she need to commit to?

Habit building is so important. You need to do new things, think new thoughts in order to create something new.

We all know the definition of insanity is to do that same thing over and over again expecting different results.

The habits, thoughts and beliefs you have right now got you to where you are now, but they won’t help you manifest what you desire. They won’t bring you to where you want to go. If they could, you’d already have what you desire.

That’s why if you want to become that most CONFIDENT and FEARLESS woman that has her dream business, dream life, and the freedom, joy, and happiness she greatly desires, you need to make each day count. 

You need to LEAD yourself EACH day. 

Your shortcut is how you intentionally approach each day.

If you are approaching each day focusing on how you don’t have enough in your bank account, how much you don’t have, or how you don’t have all the things other people have, or how no one is following on social media, or you don’t know enough to be successful, or tell yourself it’s not safe to share your knowledge and skills with others, or measure every action against whether you hit your goal or milestone…you’re going to stay stuck where you are. 

You’re going to feel defeated over and over. You’ll procrastinate, lose motivation, won’t show up, and won’t do the work. You won’t see progress because your mind is focused on what you don’t have instead of the mini successes and movement you are making along the way.

BUT, if you train your mind each day to see how much you already have, focus on what you love about your life, how much the Universe has already given to you, you’ll train your brain to see the little milestones that you are achieving, the growth you are experiencing, how you are changing and GETTING closer to where you want to be. 

For a lot of us, it means creating new thought, belief and action habits. Shifting the way we have been leading ourselves and the thoughts we’ve been feeding ourselves every day. 

There are three questions that will naturally shift your energy, and align your actions and habits to what you need to create your goals and dreams. 

These 3 powerful journal prompts I’m sharing with you changed everything for me and my clients. Clients that struggled so much with their limiting beliefs and lack mindset have seen great shifts in their energy, their stress levels, and how quickly they stepped into their dream business just by spending time each morning with these three questions.

I, personally, am naturally a “Negative-Nelly” type person, but these questions have helped me shift my approach to life, how I experience my current life, and helped me create the habits I need to create my dream life – build two businesses, hit 6 figures, build a house, move across country, sell the home I build so I can can have more time and financial freedom. 

Practice these questions each and everyday for 30, 60, 90 days and you will see a drastic shift in what you are experiencing in your life.